First Date Rules
First Date Do's and Don'ts for Girls and Guys
Make the Honeymoon Phase of a Relationship Last Forever
Why You Should Never Ask Your Man What He's Thinking
5 Sure-Fire Ways to Spot a Player
3 Reasons Men Keep Secrets in Relationships
3 Ways to Stop Letting Love Drive You Crazy
How to Handle Your Emotions When Posting a Bad Boy Profile
Another point that I've seen elsewhere is that at the end of the day, PUA stuff just encourages men to mistrust and use women. Which really sucks. Same with dating books for women - just encourage you to out-manipulate him and "keep him guessing" i.e. be dishonest and elusive.
What a load of shit. Just be real, accept that not everyone is going to love you, only a few will, but it will be worth it.
February 3, 2012 6:28 PM
Anonymous said...
Liked your postings about PUA. I fell for it about a decade ago, and it shredded what little self-esteem I had left at the time. No matter what, when I failed....it was always some backhanded "neg" towards me. PUA's tend to "neg" their fellow PUA's more than women they are "supposed" to do.
Will say I am better now, not with women, but have found my own identity and much happier now. Thanks for the post.
First Date Do's and Don'ts for Girls and Guys
Make the Honeymoon Phase of a Relationship Last Forever
Why You Should Never Ask Your Man What He's Thinking
5 Sure-Fire Ways to Spot a Player
3 Reasons Men Keep Secrets in Relationships
3 Ways to Stop Letting Love Drive You Crazy
How to Handle Your Emotions When Posting a Bad Boy Profile
Another point that I've seen elsewhere is that at the end of the day, PUA stuff just encourages men to mistrust and use women. Which really sucks. Same with dating books for women - just encourage you to out-manipulate him and "keep him guessing" i.e. be dishonest and elusive.
What a load of shit. Just be real, accept that not everyone is going to love you, only a few will, but it will be worth it.
February 3, 2012 6:28 PM
Anonymous said...
Liked your postings about PUA. I fell for it about a decade ago, and it shredded what little self-esteem I had left at the time. No matter what, when I failed....it was always some backhanded "neg" towards me. PUA's tend to "neg" their fellow PUA's more than women they are "supposed" to do.
Will say I am better now, not with women, but have found my own identity and much happier now. Thanks for the post.