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on April 16, 2011 at 4:52 pmRivelino
“re: what sdaedalus says above about Crystal reading here”

thanks doug. excellent advice.


on April 16, 2011 at 5:04 pmDoug1
If she told you on her first date with you that she’s slept with “about 10 guys” then she’s probably slept with 15-20, or more. How did that come up btw?

It’s almost always a poor idea to give a girl you want to see a number lower than the one she’s given you, adjusted upward by the 2x multiplier (which can be conservative). Better to be vague esp. in early going. “Oh quite a few.” Or amplify: “Oh hundreds.”

in a way, i worry about crystal too. i worry about all girls who sleep around. they are at more emotional and physical risk.

Don’t tell her that, unless and until you’re easing her into a friend with benefits relationship with you as you encourage her in finding Mr. right to LTR with and marry.