The Soul of a Cheater
I am A Greedy Girl
Handle With Care
Are You A Nag?
How to Make Your Woman Happy
Inappropriate Behaviour in Relationships
If It's Broke, Fix It
So You’re On A Break
However. I’d add two additional thoughts: 1. A lot of women are generally down on themselves (so maybe she is smoking, she just doesn’t know it) and 2. we should be careful not to fall into conventional themes of beauty and attraction. I’ve learned not everyone is into a size four, or the same age, and maybe they actually (gasp) appreciate intellectual conversation as something that attracts them. We all have our own things that get us – and they are not always what shows up on the TV.
That being said – I still share your mistrust of this situation. It would be interesting to hear what happened…
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Paula says:
December 20, 2010 at 12:06 pm
He could be a narcissist who needs to be the prettiest one in the relationship, or so insecure and messed up in other ways that the women in his league think “mess” and move on. I met someone last year who had both of those reasons for being around women considerably less attractive than him. He had me and several other women fooled that it was because he was less shallow and superficial than other men, and that he really cared more about brains than looks. He uses that to kid himself that he’s a nice guy, better than the rest. While he does care less about looks than brains, there’s definitely a reason why, and it doesn’t exactly situate him on a pedestal.
I am A Greedy Girl
Handle With Care
Are You A Nag?
How to Make Your Woman Happy
Inappropriate Behaviour in Relationships
If It's Broke, Fix It
So You’re On A Break
However. I’d add two additional thoughts: 1. A lot of women are generally down on themselves (so maybe she is smoking, she just doesn’t know it) and 2. we should be careful not to fall into conventional themes of beauty and attraction. I’ve learned not everyone is into a size four, or the same age, and maybe they actually (gasp) appreciate intellectual conversation as something that attracts them. We all have our own things that get us – and they are not always what shows up on the TV.
That being said – I still share your mistrust of this situation. It would be interesting to hear what happened…
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Paula says:
December 20, 2010 at 12:06 pm
He could be a narcissist who needs to be the prettiest one in the relationship, or so insecure and messed up in other ways that the women in his league think “mess” and move on. I met someone last year who had both of those reasons for being around women considerably less attractive than him. He had me and several other women fooled that it was because he was less shallow and superficial than other men, and that he really cared more about brains than looks. He uses that to kid himself that he’s a nice guy, better than the rest. While he does care less about looks than brains, there’s definitely a reason why, and it doesn’t exactly situate him on a pedestal.